I
was working with two families in
semi-private sessions. The
mothers were friends and got
puppies at the same time from
the same breeder. They wanted
to work together with their pups
and children in semi-private
sessions, I accommodated them.
One mother had many complaints
about her puppy – twelve weeks
old at the start of our
sessions. This is the pup I
will concentrate on. The puppy
would bite and grab, snarl and
lunge at the children –
especially her younger boys ages
four and twelve. The puppy had
singled out the youngest on
several occasions and even drew
blood. The pup was a real
terror. When I was not at the
house, I could expect at least
one call each week regarding the
puppy’s behavior. What if I
told you the puppy was a pit
bull?
Right now you are probably
thinking: “Get rid of the dog!
This breed is dangerous and
should never be owned. They
need to be banned for public
safety. This is what the owners
get for buying this breed!”
Here is a little more about the
home environment the puppy was
living in. Two parent
household, pretty affluent
region. Mom is at home
primarily. She supposedly had
time to devote to a pup and she
taught parenting classes in the
evenings. Dad was locally
respected. They have three boys
ages four, twelve and seventeen.
The breed of dog that best fit
their home was well researched:
books were read, people talked
to, a good breeder found. Mom
read eight books on dog training
and care alone before getting
the pup. It was impressive the
time and effort they put into
the choice of a dog for the
family. They knew the
importance of early training and
socializing so as soon as the
pup was fully inoculated, they
contacted me. Mom focused
intently during our sessions and
took notes! The middle child
took part in lessons. The pup
was a demon. She was wild and
bit him a lot. What if I told
you the pup was a Rottweiler?
Right now you are probably
thinking, “Get rid of the dog!
Rotties are a dangerous breed
and should not be kept as pets.
No matter how good a family is;
the dogs are too risky! They
should be banned!”
The puppy was very active and
the breeder bred for strong
traits. Working dogs. The pup
was self-willed, driven and high
energy. Mom knew the importance
of teaching the puppy it was not
good to use her mouth on
humans. Mom was very worried
about the pup’s increasing
“aggression” to the younger
boys. Well, when mom left the
room to answer the phone
(remember semi-private sessions
at her home with another pup)
the younger boys immediately
started playing with the pup in
ways that taught the puppy is
was good to bite people! I
stopped the boys and the middle
son said this was how they
played with her all the time –
especially when mom was not
there! The pup was playing as
roughly with the boys as she did
the other puppy. However, if
she got too rough with the other
puppy, the other pup would yelp
and let her know that play
needed to tone down – and it
would. Cannot play nice, play
will stop. But the boys did not
do this. Puppy learned that
tackling and biting hard was a
good game with people! When I
pointed this out to mom, she
just commented that boys would
be boys. I explained that this
is why the pup was a biter – her
boys’ actions. Stop the boys
and have them play different,
safer games, do some retraining
of manners and the pup would
turn around.
I
reminded mom that the pup needed
about three to five short
practice sessions a day plus
integrating lessons into daily
life. Mom could not squeeze out
the time to work with the pup –
or the boys. Remember, she is
mainly an at-home Mom. I asked
about the exercise the pup was
getting. She was a high-energy
girl with a lot of drive that
needed to be directed to good
activities. Mom said the pup
spent much of the day in the
kitchen because she was such a
terror. The pup needed a good
combination of exercise and
quiet time – but all she was
getting was confinement to a
small area in the kitchen! Then
mom told me about all the
different techniques they were
using throughout the days to
teach the puppy. The pup had no
consistency. The pup was
confused as she never knew what
to expect, what cues would be
used or anything. This was
contrary to what I explained our
first meeting. I had explained
that if they did not see
improvement in a week of one
technique, I would trouble shoot
and teach another the following
week. Expecting something to
work the first time is
unreasonable. So, pup being
taught biting humans is good,
pup not getting enough balance
of exercise and quiet time, pup
confused. Bad combination.
Mom called to say the pup was a
real menace but they had to stop
sessions because they did not
have the time to devote to
formal classes any more as their
schedules got more hectic with
activities every day during and
after school. She did not have
the time to supervise the boys
and the puppy’s playing. The
pup would stay in the kitchen
and maybe they would re-home her
if her biting and rough play got
worse. Dad already was set to
send the pup out. Now, what if
I tell you the puppy was a
Beagle? You know: Snoopy?
You are probably thinking, “Oh
that poor pup! It is going to
suffer because of owners who did
not care enough to give the pup
what it needed and teach it
manners. Owners like this
should not have dogs!”
Why is there the difference in
opinion? Is it because Beagles
are cute and cuddly? If I
continued to say the pup was a
pit or Rottie would your
attitude have stayed the same or
would you pity the dog? Rarely
is it the dog that is the
problem. No matter what breed
this puppy was, her behavior was
caused due to lack of action
from her owners. They wanted
the perfect “Norman Rockwell”
image and a dog would complete
that. However, they were not
willing to do the work it takes
to make any breed or cross a
good and well-mannered
companion. However, we will
never hear people crying to ban
Snoopy. You can’t ban Snoopy!
So why do we call for banning of
other breeds as opposed to
looking at the dog’s environment
as the root cause of most
problems?
And during that last call from
Mom, I was told they had given
up another dog not that long
before they got the Beagle. The
reason: “The dog kept biting
the boys.”